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    I try to think whether it was really this other person’s behavior that caused my reaction, or something in me. If it’s mostly me, my feelings are still real feelings, but I have no cause to lay fault on someone else and try to make him feel bad.

    Thank you. This seems to be missing from a lot of current events discussions here and elsewhere (which would be further OT to bring up now).

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      I’m flagging this as hopefully off-topic. Maybe it’s related to “culture”, but on the other hand it seems really just a private issue between a few people; I don’t want to keep reading about it.

      Also I’m sad that this link didn’t actually take me to a functional program that is able to talk about its own feelings :(